To the Editor:

When a child is diagnosed with a chronic illness or special needs, the focus naturally shifts to their care. However, an often overlooked consequence is the emotional toll on their siblings — children who are not ill themselves yet experience anxiety, sadness, resentment, and isolation.

In 2005, Dr. Brian Sheridan, then a third-year pediatric resident at the Children’s Hospital at Albany Medical Center, recognized this need and founded the not-for-profit Bus Stop Club in Upstate New York. His mission was simple yet powerful: to support the emotional and social well-being of siblings of children with special needs or chronic illnesses.

These siblings often endure a complex mix of emotions and responsibilities that go unacknowledged. Bus Stop Club provides them with a safe space to express their feelings, develop coping strategies, and connect with peers facing similar family dynamics.

Monthly sessions — such as those held at the Guilderland and Bethlehem YMCAs — feature guided discussions, therapy dogs, art and music therapy, and even magicians to foster a comforting and engaging environment.

Beyond support groups, the organization hosts special outings to places like the Bronx Zoo, Boston Children’s Museum, and local sporting events. These trips give children the chance to simply enjoy being kids — free from the stress and pressures at home.

Importantly, all of these services are completely free of charge, thanks to the organization’s commitment to easing the financial burden many families face. Bus Stop Club also holds family-wide events, helping parents connect with others and build meaningful support networks.

To learn more or to become involved, visit www.BusStopClub.com or email . Let’s make sure these often overlooked children receive the recognition and support they so deeply deserve.

Angela Tobin

Executive Director

Bus Stop Club

East Greenbush