MIDDLEBURGH — Here we are again. At Mrs. K’s. Weren’t we here last week? As Yogi Berra once famously said, “It’s like déjà vu all over again.”
Well, that is what starts to happen at this time of the year. Vacations! Remember what was written about there being only one waitress at each diner? And that waitress knows all of us, and we know her, we can joke with her, and she can joke right back. She can give as well, or better, than she gets.
She knows what we are going to order, where we sit, doesn’t even have a menu to hand out. Having 20 or 30 OMOTM walk through the door pretty much at the same time doesn’t faze her at all.
What happens if she is on vacation? You might get a rookie! I personally have a hard time imagining a scarier thing if I were thrust into that situation. Can you imagine facing 25 OMOTM all at once who get grumpy just for the hell of it, much less if you mess up their breakfast order?
What would you do? It’s hard to get and keep customers, no matter what business you are in. It takes time to cultivate potential customers and you can lose them forever in a heartbeat over a real or imagined issue.
In this case, you could let the powers that be know that you had an issue and could we go to one of the other diners that particular week? But who would that be? There are no “powers that be” with the OMOTM. No president, no officers of any kind.
Wait, wait, I know who I’ll contact: the guy who writes the column for The Enterprise. He will know how to fix it. Right.
John Williams, our Scribe Emeritus, gave me a few hints a while after I started writing this column. On one occasion he said to me, “Along with writing the column for The Altamont Enterprise, you also become the chief cook and bottle washer for the group.”
Oh. OK. Now I'm starting to feel like that rookie I just wrote about. So I looked at my calendar to see what diner I could call. Everything worked out all right and since I also maintain the email list, I let everyone know.
Whew, escaped that issue. It wasn’t all that bad. Then I got another email from another diner, “Hey, we are on vacation on the 27th. Could you ….” Sure I can.
Mother’s Day
We just had Mother's Day this past Sunday.
It was a wonderful day; the weather cooperated and the above-mentioned hardworking waitresses either had the day off or were rather busy working at their restaurants because the OMOTM types, who don’t know which end of the spatula to hold, took their much better halves out to dinner rather than embarrassing themselves in a room (the kitchen) they are seldom allowed in for good reasons.
I stand corrected. Most of us do know which end of the spatula to hold if we are outside at the barbecue grill with a cold beer in the other hand. But this wasn't going to cut it on Mother's Day.
She really is not going to be impressed with a hot dog or hamburger today and beer is definitely not on her list of beverages on this day. Try a nice wine instead.
One more tip, guys: On behalf of those waitresses who drew the short straw and are working on Mother’s Day, doubling the tax is not close to what is considered an adequate tip anymore (and hasn’t been for quite a while).
In my household, what I described above would be pretty close to the way it was. My wife and I didn't get too carried away with presents or flowers but, if I do say so myself, I used to cook up a pretty good omelet for breakfast.
We didn't go out for dinner very often so I would gather up my favorite spatula and take the special steaks, filet mignon, complete with our favorite sauce and sauteed onions, baked potato, etc., and fire up the grill.
She would be in charge of the sauce (that’s the special kitchen stuff only she knew how to make; I have to look up how to spell s-a-u-c-e.) Dessert would be cheesecake made by the Nuns of New Skete.
I could not grill this filet with a beer; oh no, a nice merlot was the order of the day. We enjoyed cooking special dinners together rather than going out all the time. Sort of made the whole day a little more special for both of us.
Don't get me wrong: We went out plenty of times and we had our favorite restaurants. She is gone now, and I have planted a flower garden in her memory. It was in full bloom on this beautiful Mother’s Day, so I raised a nice glass of merlot to my Midge, and to all the mothers on this, their special day. Happy Mother’s Day!
The OMOTM, who, with spatulas not in their hands, joined together for breakfast at Mrs. K'’ were Harold Guest, Wally Guest, Ed Goff, George Washburn, Wm Lichliter, Pete Whitbeck, Frank A. Fuss, Mark Traver, Joe Rack, Robert Schanz, Dave Hodgetts, Allan Defazio, Lou Schenck, John Williams, Herb Bahrmann, Al Schager, Duncan Bellinger, John Dab, Paul Guiton, Glenn Patterson, Roger Shafer, Roland Tozer, Ken Parks, Ted Feurer, Jake Lederman, Wayne Gaul, Jake Herzog, Chuck Batcher, Russ Pokorny, Gerry Chartier, Bob Donnelly, and me.
MIDDLEBURGH — Rain, rain, go away, come again another day!
We are sure glad this is May, not January, because, if it were, we could be digging out of two or three feet of’snow instead of singing, “Row, row, row your boat gently down the stream.” As we drove over to Mrs K's Kitchen in Middleburgh on May 7, we saw virtually all the streams and creeks overflowing their banks.
While no flooding was occurring on the roads or threatening any homes, water was getting a little close to some of them. Rained all day and even topped it off with a thunder-and-lighting show around 9 p.m.
At least it wasn’t cold as the OMOTM made their way to Mrs K’s for breakfast. Once there, you will never guess what the conversations centered about. Yup, rain.
With all the smaller streams and creeks overflowing their banks in many places, and just about all of them eventually flowing into the bigger Schoharie Creek, the question was whether or not it would crest its own banks. The Schoharie Creek was certainly running high and fast.
The topic of the relative merits of the manufacturer of tires, specifically rain tires, naturally was at or close to the top of these discussions.
One OF lamented that, even though he had thoroughly researched rain tires (he was living in North Carolina at the time where tropical storms and hurricanes often visit), when he last bought tires for his car, that was some 60,000 miles ago.
It is a fact that, with the loss of tread on your tires, there is a corresponding loss of traction, no matter how good the tire was when new. Might be time to think about some new tires.
There is nothing wrong with the OMOTM’s sense of humor early on a rainy morning as was clearly demonstrated by some of the following overheard statements.
There were more than a few classic comments floating around the tables dealing with the rising water. Such as:
— “There were white caps on the brand new pond in my back yard!”
— “I think I need an air boat, to get across my yard”;
— “I could stock my front yard with trout and go fishing,;on second thought, it might have fish already in it from the creek that flooded”;
— “I think my big new pond in the backyard has tides, it does have a couple of ducks!”and
— “I should float my kayak out there.”
Birthday cacophony
The OMOTM were asked to quiet down and give their attention for a very important special announcement. We don't have announcements very often so we knew that something important was afoot.
Since the OMOTM have no officers or anything like that, it can be a bit tricky trying to get a bunch of old guys who are hard of hearing in the first place, to all pay attention at the same time, to just one guy. The job of getting the attention of everyone usually falls to one of the select few loud mouths present at that particular breakfast meeting.
This announcement had to do with our waitress. Now, the waitresses at the five diners the OMOTM travel to on a rotating basis are extremely important. There are only five of them, one per diner, and they know everything!
They know all of us, and we know them. They know where we are going to sit; they know what we are going to order — that’s why none of them even offer to hand any of us a menu. They know which of us wants regular coffee or decaf.
They are always nice, always pleasant, always happy to see us. (That's because we are such big tippers; it is still the same as the tax, right? — right?)
The big news was, it was our waitress’s birthday! Angela is the best waitress at Mrs K'’ Kitchen. As I said, there is only one waitress at Mrs K’s; that’s OK, Angela is still the best one there! By far.
We all sang “Happy Birthday” to her. It was terrible. Every time the OMOTM sing “Happy Birthday,” it never gets any better. Rock-bottom bad. It brings tears to your eyes, but it is sung with sincerity and feeling and a lot of gusto.
Cars stop outside because they hear this awful sound and get confused as to what it means and where it is coming from, and how to get away from it. We are never asked to sing it again.
Even Pastor Jay Francis of the Rock Road Chapel Ministries clearly is not considering the OMOTM for an all-male choir on Sundays. I think I heard him say something to the effect of, “There is enough misery and sadness in the world; there is no real need to add to it.”
Well, today was great, the sun was shining, blue skies, no rain, and the OMOTM got to serenade Angela on her birthday, with gusto. The boys in the OMOTM choir who also enjoyed breakfast at Mrs K'’ Kitchen were; Wally Guest, Harold Guest, Ed Goff, Wm Lichliter, George Washburn, Pete Whibeck, Joe Rack, Frank A. Fuss, Robert Schanz, Warren Willsey, Lou Schenck, Herb Bahrmann, Al Schager, John Jaz, Jerry Cross, Jack Norray, Elwood Vanderbilt, Dave Hodgetts, Bob Donnelly, Alan Defazio, Glenn Patterson, Roland Tozer, Duncan Bellinger, Jacob Lederman, Ted Feurer, Wayne Gaul, Russ Pokorny, Jim Gardner, John Dab, Paul Guiton, Gerry Chartier, and me.
MIDDLEBURGH — For the second morning in a row, the day held the promise of being a nice warm 80 degrees. We will take that anytime Mother Nature feels like handing it to us.
The OMOTM descended upon the Middleburgh Diner on April 29, and the sun was up and shining brightly at 7 a.m. We raised our cups of fresh coffee to acknowledge the beginning of another fine day.
This column has made mention before of the many and varied occupations of the OMOTM that you will find among those members who join us each Tuesday morning for breakfast. Maybe the most unique would involve a young man named Jay T. Francis who was born and raised on a family dairy farm in Berne, here in the Hilltowns.
That, in and of itself, is definitely not unique. Many members of the OMOTM can say the same thing. Furthermore, Jay liked being a farmer and wanted to stay and grow the family farm; after all, he is the fifth generation to work that farm, and he can see at least three more generations learning the family farming business.
He went to school and received a degree in agriculture. Along the way, he realized he also wanted to help those people in need of a helper, in need of a guide and someone to counsel them. Jay felt the calling and enrolled in the Nyack Missionary College in Rockland County. At this point, let me quote from an earlier article appearing in the old Knickerbocker News dated Monday, June 26, 1978.
Jay “... recalls thinking, ‘Lord, I know you’ll probably make me a missionary in Africa, but I want to build a Christian community here.’ Francis says his prayers were answered in the form of an abandoned, bankrupt, burned-out farm just a couple of farms from where he grew up.”
Reverend Jay T. Francis, pastor of the Rock Road Ministries in Knox with his wife, Evelyn, took that old farm and built it and more, into exactly that dream while also growing the family farm into a substantial enterprise.
I will quote once again from a previously published source, this time the Alumni News from his old alma mater, Coby Agricultural and Technical College, written in the fall of 1985. It reads in part, like this:
From pasture to pastor — “Colby Grad Combines Farming and Fellowship … troubled youth have come for help …. and get their life together, so they can function in this world. As a home, the farm is a place people can turn to for help. Over three-hundred people have come here at some time, sent by pastors, parole officers, judges, parents.
Another sentence from the Knickerbocker News: “He is more interested in where they are going than where they’ve been.”
In addition to all of this, Pastor Jay Francis also maintains a well stocked food pantry with personal-care items that are available to all, free of charge. If you are hungry on a Wednesday morning, there is a free (donations are always welcome) hot breakfast that is maintained by volunteers cooking your breakfast just the way you like it.
I think the world could use more fifth-generation farmers like the Reverend Jay T. Francis, but to meet him on any given Tuesday morning, he is just another OMOTM enjoying breakfast at any one of the five diners we frequent. A good man. One of many in the ranks of the Old Men of the Mountain with a life story you may not suspect.
Well done, Pastor.
Drone capabilities
Also, previous columns have discussed the advancements in our phones from the old party lines to every house having it' own private number, to today's wireless cell phones that just about all of us have.
We have talked about the advancements in communication with regards to the volunteer fire and rescue and emergency medical services personnel. All these advances enable them to respond more quickly to the emergency to provide the necessary help as quickly and accurately as possible.
That leads us to Tuesday’s discussion about the use of drones.
One of our OFs is a volunteer fireman and was telling us about the capabilities of these special modern-day drones and some of the wonderful benefits they can and do provide the volunteers and by extension, all of us.
The local demonstration and educational session he attended showed how the drone can help find someone lost in the woods and mountains. These drones have heat-sensing capabilities; it doesn’t matter if it is night or day, thick underbrush, or if the person needing help is under a tree with a bunch of leaves overhead. The licensed operator can tell if they are looking at an animal, like a deer, or if they are looking at a human.
Remember the column about GPS? These drones know exactly where they are looking and can tell the searchers exactly where to go to find you. To the foot! They can tell an ATV or helicopter where you are and, because they have cameras, the rescue people will know what to bring with them in order to get you out safely.
If it is a fire they are fighting, the drone can tell them right away exactly where a new hot spot has broken out. Good ol’ GPS again and cameras. If, by chance, you just robbed Fort Knox and are trying to hide from the authorities in the woods, good luck with that.
It really was a fascinating and enlightening conversation, and such drones are in use right here in the Hilltowns right now. Do go ahead, the next time someone says, “Get lost!” go for it, get lost, the volunteers will find you. I do recommend you bring along a PB&J sandwich and some water.
Those who joined the pastor this morning at the Middleburgh Diner were Harold Guest, Wally Guest, Miner Stevens, Ed Goff, George Washburn, Pete Whitbeck, Frank A. Fuss, Warren Willsey, Russ Pokorny, Dick Dexter, John Jaz, Gerry Cross, Jack Norray, Lou Schenck, Herb Bahrmann, and me.
DUANESBURG — It was a nice, sunny, blue-sky spring morning on April 22 as the OMOTM made their way to Chris’s Chuck Wagon Diner for breakfast. As usual, our coffee arrived at our seats at the same time as we did.
Also as usual, we placed our usual breakfast orders. Now, these usual orders can be the same order each week or not. Some OFs order the same breakfast at a particular diner. Other OFs will wait and ask what the specials are, and then order what strikes their fancy, which usually is what they order all the time.
Strangely, no menus are ever handed out, 20 or 30 of the OMOTM can show up, and not one menu is needed. The breakfast specials are generally found on a handwritten wall sign.
Our Happy Wanderer, the OF who was last reported to be driving counterclockwise (don’t ask) around Iceland with his daughter and granddaughter was back with us enjoying breakfast.
He talked about the hot water found all over Iceland at a depth of 200 to 300 feet down. About like the depth of an average (if there is such a thing) well here in the Hilltowns. This hot water is used to provide the heat for the homes and businesses throughout the country. I wonder what they do for cold water?
He was asked if they saw the volcanoes erupting. No, they didn’t.
He asked his daughter, who was driving at the time, to turn right at the sign that points to the volcano fields. Missed it. Our OF wasn’t upset. He said he expected the road would be closed after a little way because of the active volcano, and besides, they were on their way to another attraction that Iceland has to offer, so all was well.
On another day, they did manage to drive into a blizzard. The OF was driving this time, and he couldn’t see from one brightly painted pole to the next. In Iceland, the special brightly painted poles are spaced out along the road to help keep you on the road in situations like this. He says there are no guardrails on the sides of the roads.
So here he was, in a blizzard, couldn’t see the poles, the wind was howling, so he stopped to let his daughter drive. Like all of OMOTM, we have reached the point where our children are much better drivers than we are.
Their eyes are better, and their reflexes are so much quicker it is ridiculous. He said he had to hold onto the car while moving from the driver’s side to the passenger’s side to keep from being blown down. They made the switch and all ended well. They all got home, safe and sound. This was just last week.
He did say it was great to be back in the Hilltowns. He says that, as wonderful as Iceland is, with its dramatic volcanoes, geysers, mountains, and tremendous people, it is equally terrific to drive in the Hilltowns here in our own backyard.
We are so fortunate to live where we do, it is easy to take all this for granted. Sometimes you have to go away and then come back in order to appreciate all that we have and the beauty right here at home.
Fan club
It was as our breakfast was starting to wind down, and some of us were getting up to pay our bills, when those advance distaff scouts, the ones who can trace their lineage back to Calamity Jane, Belle Star, and Annie Oakley, made a discreet appearance.
I had written a short couple of humorous, tongue-in-cheek, and purely fictional paragraphs about these three present-day friends who were having breakfast at the Chuck Wagon. I came back to our table to pick up my coat and stopped to say hello and kid them about scaring all the OMOTM away from our table, which was now empty. We all laughed and then a nice thing happened to me.
As our scribe emeritus, John Williams, knows very well, it is very nice to find some people (other than family) who have read and enjoyed what you have written in the Old Men of the Mountain column found in The Altamont Enterprise.
Well, they said they read The Enterprise and have enjoyed the OMOTM column for many years. Old habits are hard to break, so they still read the column to this day. I thank John for his wonderful body of work he created over the years writing this column. He certainly has a large and loyal following of readers.
The nice thing that happened to me was just a simple realization of that fact.These three friends, who were sitting down to breakfast at the Chuck Wagon, all said they enjoyed the column and they even informed me which one of them was the granddaughter of Belle Star, Calamity Jane, and Annie Oakley. Made my day! Thanks for sharing your fan club, John.
The OMOTM who also enjoyed breakfast today were Wally Guest, Harold Guest, Roland Tozer, Miner Stevens, Wm Lichliter, Pete Whitbeck, George Washburn, Frank Dees, Jim Gardner, Jake Herzog, Russ Pokorny, Wayne Gaul, Ted Feurer, Glenn Patterson, Mark Traver, Joe Rack, Jamey Darrah, Marty Herzog, Lou Schenck, John Williams, Herb Bahrmann, Paul Bahrmann, Pastor Jay Francis, John Dabb, Elwood Vanderbilt, Dave Hodgetts, Gerry Cross, John Jaz, Jack Norray, Dick Dexter, Paul Guiton, and me.
DELANSON — A nice morning on April 15, following a really nice day on the 14th, made for a robust group of OMOTM showing up for breakfast at Gibby’s Diner. Add returning OFs from the warm sunny South and the noise level just keeps climbing.
Last week, we talked about an OF and his great big pancake. This week, I could talk about one OF who ordered ham and eggs for breakfast.
He made the mistake of ordering a ham steak and eggs and that ham steak was easily as large as last week’s pancake. It came on its own separate plate! To make a long story short, he had to ask for a doggie bag to take home the two-thirds he could not finish.
After watching the Masters Tournament and its exciting playoff ending after tying in regulation, I was expecting some conversation about it around the tables. Not a word.
I couldn't believe it, so I went around to all the tables and asked who at that table ever played golf and who, if any, watched the Masters on TV on Sunday. Silence, table after table, nothing but silence.
In the end, a grand total of three OFs, including me, had ever played golf. I don’t know about the other two OFs, but most of my golfing career was played at conventions where I spent most of my golfing time waiting for, and wondering where the beer cart was, and why it was taking so long for it to catch up to me. I was not a great golfer, but I had a lot of fun.
So much for talking about golf; it didn't take long at all.
Wanderling feline
At our table we did hear about one OF and his 27-year-old cat. It is a house cat and one fine day it seized an opportunity to see the great outdoors, and left.
Seven months later, while the OF was eating breakfast at home, the cat reappeared and has stayed at home ever since. Evidently the cat had seen enough of the great outdoors and came home.
When asked about what kind of cat it is, our OF, in typical OMOTM style, said he didn’t know; it was just a regular cat. He then went on to tell us of all the ills his regular cat has to deal with these days; there are a bunch of them.
That conversation about a 27-year-old regular ol’ cat who went on a walkabout for seven months took up much more time than any conversation about golf.
Icelandic roadtrip
Also last week, you may remember a discussion about the Pan American Highway from the southern tip of South America to the northern tip of North America. The Ultimate Road Trip.
Well, the OF who was talking about that road trip was not at breakfast with us this week. He is currently driving around Iceland!
Hard to keep track of some of these OFs! I would do that in a heartbeat, as compared to the Ultimate Road Trip. Iceland has some fantastic sights to see, such as big active volcanoes. That would really be something to witness.
Life’s path
I have been talking to one of the OMOTM about stuff. I really don't remember how we got on the subject of his life’s journey to arrive at where he is today. I have to talk to him again, as it has to be a fascinating story.
Like many of us, how we got to this place in life sometimes has very little to do with what we thought we would be doing by this time. If we even thought about it at all when we were young.
As most of you know, I didn’t grow up here in the Hilltowns in the mountains outside of the valley. I was a flat lander. I graduated from Voorheesville’s high school, and worked in the family business in Albany.
I did live in East Berne on Warner’s Lake in the summertime every summer while growing up, starting in 1952. Now I live here year ’round and can look across the lake at the family camp my daughter now occupies.
I write this weekly column about the OMOTM for The Altamont Enterprise and I volunteer my time with the local Kiwanis Club of the Helderbergs, helping the children and some families in the communities here in the Hilltowns. I assure you that this is not what I would have imagined long ago.
The volunteering part is not so much of a surprise. That clearly is the result of my upbringing; it is some of the values my folks taught me. Writing this column is a whole different story.
I think most of us can tell the very same story. I believe we would find a lot of common similarities. Everybody is different, yet everybody is the same.
The OF that was mentioned before, he grew up on a family farm right here in the Hilltowns. He still farms, but his card doesn’t reflect that. It says Pastor, Rock Road Ministries, and that doesn’t tell anywhere near the whole story. I can’t wait to sit down and talk with him; something tells me I’ll be a better man when we are through talking.
Those who stopped talking long enough to enjoy the fine breakfast at Gibby’s Diner were Harold Guest (Happy 89th Birthday, Harold!), Wally Guest, Pastor Jay Francis, Ed Goff, Michael Kruzinski, Pete Whitbeck, George Washburn, Wm Lichliter, Jake Lederman, Ted Feurer, Wayne Gaul, Warren Willsey, Roland Tozer, Miner Stevens, Frank A. Fuss, Jamey Darrah, Marty Herzog, Jake Herzog, Mark Traver, Glenn Patterson, Joe Rack, Lou Schenck, Jack Norray, Gerry Cross, Dick Dexter, Herb Bahrmann, John Dab, Paul Guiton, Elwood Vanderbilt, Bob Donnelly, Dave Hodgetts, Henry Whipple, and me.
After a great 70-degree day on Monday when many of the OMOTM got outside and got to work in the warm fresh air doing stuff that our bodies were complaining about on Tuesday morning, April 1, we woke up to 30-degree temps and wind. But we made it to Mrs. K's Kitchen in Middleburgh on time after chewing down some Ibuprofen tablets.
I am not kidding about the Ibuprofen tablets; old guys just sometimes don't seem to understand that we can’t do today what we did effortlessly yesterday. What do you mean I can't dig five little two-foot-deep post holes and put the fence posts in them in two hours? I probably won't even break a sweat.
Oh, wait. You mean the holes must all be the same depth? Because, if they are not, then the rails that fit into the holes in the end posts won't be the same height above the ground and the whole fence will really look stupid as the horizontal rails go up and down from post to post.
Rocks. I have hundreds, maybe thousands, of rocks lurking just one inch below the crab grass I call my lawn. I call my lawn a 20 mph lawn, which means if you drive by my house at 20 mph or faster and glance over at my lawn, it looks pretty good.
My neighbors all have 2 mph lawns with real grass and no crab grass. That’s OK because, once I get my wonderfully attractive split rail fence in place, I’ll be the envy of the neighborhood. My curb appeal will skyrocket.
Back to the rocks. Who knew they were there? Okay, one inch down, only 23 inches to go! I need something to help me get rid of the rocks, some of which are more like boulders.
I know what I’ll do — I’ll ask my friends, the OMOTM. They know everything. Sure enough, they did.
The only problem was, they all started talking at once, and loudly. For all of us OFs who wear hearing aids, this means only one thing. You just hear a bunch of noise.
I understood enough to realize I needed a few more tools. Just my trusty shovel was not going to do the job.
Two tools in particular are absolutely required. The first is a post-hole digger; the second is sort of a two-for-one tool with one end being flat and round like a 2- or 3-inch silver-dollar pancake. The other end is like a pry bar to help break up the soil and loosen up the rocks so the post hole digger can pick them up.
This pry bar is made of iron and around an inch or a little bigger in diameter. It is also over six feet long and weighs 5,000 pounds! You have to use two hands to raise it up before slamming it down into the hole. It takes about 1,000 slams per one foot of hole plus wiggling it around to really loosen the rocks and dirt so you can bend over and pick up the post-hole digger to help remove all this stuff from your two-foot hole. One inch at a time.
It wasn’t long before I was thinking about how deep do I really have to make this hole? Would 20 inches down be enough? How about 18 inches? By the way, once you start with the first 24-inch post hole, they all must be the same depth. And straight. And plumb, no fair having the post leaning this way or that way.
It also helps to have the holes in the post facing the rails so you have someplace to put the rails into the posts! Also helps to have the posts located 10 feet apart if you have 10-foot rails, otherwise — whoops.
Then I find out that, after I dig down two feet and have removed the last of the loose dirt and rocks, this part requires you to get down on your hands and knees and reach down into the hole and use your hands to get it all out.
After all that, guess what? Now they want you to put about one-and-a-half inches of small pea-size gravel down the hole to help drain rain water and snowmelt away from the post so it won’t rot away over time. After I just took all those *#!@$&^ rocks out in the first place!
Finally, I am ready to set the first of five posts of my wonderful split-rail fence. I make sure it is plumb with my level — did I mention you need a level? Yup, you do, and some sort of a measuring tape is critical to this operation as well.
Now you can shovel the dirt back into the hole and, using the end of that heavy, long iron bar that has the round flat silver dollar, you start pounding the dirt down all around the post. All two feet of it.
This is also approximately 1,000 times you will pound the dirt back in place. I did it! I got one post done, only four more to go!
And one more tool is the most important of all: You must have another person to help you! Preferably, this person will be younger, tireless, and in shape. Not an OF!
I didn’t make it. I got four done, I have one more to go. Really tired. Exhausted. Time for a cold beer.
The OMOTM who made it to Mrs. K's for breakfast the next day were Harold Guest, Wally Guest, George Washburn, Wm. Lichliter, Roger Shafer, Roland Tozer, Frank A. Fuss, Mark Traver, Glenn Patterson, Joe Rack, Ken Parkes, Jim Austin, Chuck Batcher, Russ Pokorny, Warren Willsey, Pastor Jay Francis, Lou Schenck, Jerry Cross, John Jaz, Herb Bahrmann, John Dab, Paul Guiton, Bob Donnelly, Dave Hodges, Elwood Vanerbuilt, and me.
MIDDLEBURGH — The OMOTM traveled to the Middleburgh Diner on kind of a gray chilly morning, March 25, in search of a good hot cup of coffee and, in my case, a sausage omelette, home fries, and an English muffin. Tuesdays are hard on my diet.
Before I get to talking about Tuesday morning’s conversations, I have to mention an occurrence that happened last week at the Chuck Wagon Diner.
Three nice ladies arrived and seated themselves in an empty booth at the end of the room the OMOTM were in. Who were they? Why were they here? What’s going on? Were any or all of them related to any of the OMOTM?
The reason I didn’t mention this last week was because I felt I needed some answers first. It turns out that each of them is the great-granddaughter of three different very famous women: Anne, Belle, and Calamity.
One of the great-grandmothers was a sharpshooter extraordinaire and toured with Buffalo Bill’s Wild West Show. That was Anne Oakley.
Another great-grandmother was Belle Starr, an outlaw in her own right, who also knew and hid Frank and Jesse James and the Younger gang from the law, at her farm.
The third and last great-grandmother in this trio was Calamity Jane, who was an adventurer roaming the old west. She wore men’s clothing, swore just like the men in the U.S. Army that she was a scout for, and could drink them under the table. She worked with the Pony Express and she met and knew Wild Bill Hickok who himself was a spy and scout and a sharpshooter for the Union Army during the Civil War.
I wasn't able to gather much additional information regarding these three ladies but, if any of their ancestral lineage has survived in them to this day, then the OMOTM should know and take note of the background these women possess, whose great-grandmothers could out-ride, out-shoot, and at least one of them could out-drink us all.
It is my belief we should keep a sharp eye out for any strangers from the distaff side who may be the advance scouts for somebody’s wild west show. Who knows? I say, “Keep those flintlocks ready to repel the invasion of the distaff Army!”
Classic convertible coming soon
No advance distaff scouts were sighted this week at the Middleburgh Diner. One OF who just returned, (a bit early), from a quick get-warm vacation to the sunny south land is now all excited and is now impatiently counting the days to early April when he will drive with another OF to Virginia to pick up a classic convertible sports car and drive it back to the Hilltowns.
I am looking forward to that classic car as well because that particular OF is the man I carpool with. With any luck, he will let me drive it once, very slowly, in the empty parking lot of some shopping center. Remember that? Teaching our kids how to park in those parking lots?
Rising prices
Once again, the conversations turned to the cost of things today and of all the rules we have and the hoops we must jump through in today’s society versus yesterday’s. One OF talked about the cost of the windows he just had installed in his modest home to replace the older ones that had had their time in the sun long enough.
This house is an older ranch-style with a walk-out basement. He asked us to guess the cost. It was more than half the cost of my first home, which also was an older ranch-style house. Just to replace the windows!
I’m not suggesting that someone saw him coming. There were quite a few windows all around the house, which included two sliding glass doors on two levels. We all agreed that today’s modern, high quality windows and doors with a high “R” insulating factor are not the cheapest things you can have installed.
The labor alone to remove all the old windows and doors and install the new requires a large crew and special tools and equipment to say nothing about the cost of new windows themselves. But it does get your attention. Be prepared to take a deep breath or two.
We have mentioned before, you can’t expect to get today’s service and products at yesterday’s prices.
Opening camps
With the coming of warmer weather, the conversation turned to the lowering of our fuel bill for heating our homes, which led to talk about opening up the various camps and summer places.
One OF mentioned the issues he has getting heating oil to his camp. In the beginning, these camps were unheated summertime-only places. We have talked about how they are much more than a July and August place now. Now they need heat.
This OF’s camp is located across a small single-lane bridge not much longer than my car. Sort of a homemade bridge made of wood from back in the day. Oil delivery trucks can’t and won’t cross it. Way too small. The truck would crash down into the small creek under it as soon as the front wheels got on the bridge.
Those OFs who didn’t crash on the way to the Middleburgh Diner were Harold Guest, Walley Guest, Ed Goff, George Washburn, Wm. Lichliter, Frank A. Fuss, Miner Stevens, Pastor Jay Francis, Jim Gardner, Herb Bahrmann, Jack Norray, Jerry Cross, Dick Dexter, Lou Schenck, Warren Willsey, Chuck Batcher, Russ Pokorny, and me.
DELANSON — A taste of spring! It may only be one day, but a very good taste it is, blue sky, nearly 70 degrees, it might even reach and beat the record of 70 degrees. Then colder tomorrow, but the trend is for the temperatures to keep getting warmer.
Now that we have daylight saving, the days are obviously lighter longer but the sunrise suffered a setback. Even with that setback, we shall enjoy the rest of the good news regarding the weather.
A pretty sunrise was happening just as we arrived at Gibby's Diner on March 11. I knew it was going to be a happy breakfast for at least one OF when I saw a brand new, and very clean, totally electric, bright red car pull up and park, front and center, like he owned the place. A great day to drive your new car on clear, clean, and dry roads.
When he came in, we acknowledged his good looking new car. He said thanks, then he said something about the GPS in the car and his fingers not hitting the right buttons. The first thing that came to my mind was, “Why are you messing with the GPS? The OMOTM have been going to the same diners for quite a while and none of us have ever gotten lost.”
Of course, I knew why, because I would do the same thing if I had a new car that had new toys in it. Gotta check the stuff out. The OF knows perfectly well how to get to Gibby’s Diner, but does the GPS know? That’s the question.
Let’s set this thing up and see if it takes me the same way I travel. If it passes that test, then maybe I’ll trust it to guide me to someplace I haven’t visited before. Maybe.
Of course, this led our table into a rather extended discussion of our adventures involving our respective GPSs. Most of these stories were humorous, involving the old computer saying, “Garbage in equals garbage out.”
Also a lack of a clear understanding of how much information is required, in what order, on which menu page. For instance, you just can’t put an address for 123 Main St., Albany. On some GPSs, you must put in the state or you may be getting directions for Albany, Georgia or Albany, Washington — there are lots of places named Albany in the USA.
On my GPS, it doesn’t want to know the city, just the state. And, if I input both, it just stops working altogether and I have to back out of where I am.
Usually we all agreed that most of the time we just turned it off and started over again while trying desperately to remember where it was when the fatal mistake was committed.
Then there are the cell phones. They have GPS built in and cars now come equipped with GPS, which is as common as the steering wheel. The full color display screen is bigger than my first black-and-white TV.
And they talk to each other! I think you can just talk to your cellphone GPS and ask it how to get someplace and, of course, it will show and tell you everything you need to know on its own screen.
Someone else on their computer located anywhere in the world can send the info to your cell. Your cell phone will give the information to your car’s GPS system, and then, if you have a car that drives itself, you can just recline your seat, fluff your pillow, and tell your GPS to wake you upon arrival.
Of course, that computer could have just communicated directly with your car. At about that point in the conversation, I started to concentrate on eating my breakfast of ham and eggs.
This stuff really is great. One of the OFs at the table told the story of his GPS informing him of an accident ahead and of a detour he could take to avoid it. He followed the advice of the GPS, and found himself traveling along a parallel road to the road he was on.
When he looked over, he saw the ambulance just arriving at the accident. His GPS obviously got the same message at the same time as the first responders. Amazing.
I had two similar experiences with my earlier GPS — mine was not built into the car. It started to suggest I take the next exit, and it suggested this several times.
Back then, it didn’t talk to me, just suggested taking the next exit. It knew where I was, and knew the next exit number and, since I had programmed it as to where I was going, it knew how to get me there. Of course, I ignored all the suggestions and breezed right on by the exit and then read an overhead sign that told me of an accident ahead.
Too late. I was soon stuck in a traffic jam for miles! The second time this same suggestion came to me months later, I paid attention and got off and did not end up in a traffic jam.
More GPS stories next week, one of which involves the classic line, “You mean there was no there, there?”
This week, we were there there at Gibby’s Diner, with or without GPS help, and those present were Wally Guest, Harold Guest, Ed Goff, Frank A. Fuss, George Washburn, Wm Lichliter, Jamey Darrah, Marty Herzog, Russ Pokorny, Jim Gardner, Warren Willsey, Mark Traver, Joe Rack, Roland Tozer, Pastor Jay Francis, John Williams, Lou Schenck, Gerry Cross, Herb Bahrmann, Jack Norray, John Jaz, Paul Guiton, John Dab, Elwood Vanderbilt, Dave Hodgetts, Bob Donnelly, Jake Herzog, and me.
SCHOHARIE — The Old Men of the Mountain met at the Your Way Café in Schoharie on March 4 with gray skies and temperatures climbing into the upper 40s. Tomorrow it may reach 50 degrees while it rains most of the day.
Every day that it doesn't snow is a good day at this stage of the winter. I have even heard from some of our OFs in Florida talking about returning soon. I had a couple of red-wing blackbirds at my feeders this weekend. That's a good sign. No robins yet.
We enjoyed the return of one of our OFs who didn't fly south but has been away for a while. Sometimes, when the snow and ice and zero-degree temperatures and darkness and the wind and Father Time all kind of combine to tell us something that sounds a lot like, “Hey OMOTM, this just might be a good time to stay home for a while,” we should listen.
We didn’t arrive at this stage in our journey just to slip and fall and break a hip or catch the flu or COVID. Or, should we say, let the flu or COVID catch us. Just last week, I mentioned one of our OFs was back after he had slipped on the ice and broke his leg. It happens so fast.
Remember a couple weeks ago when I was considering asking a younger OF to pick me up and drive to the OMOTM breakfast because of the ice and snow in my driveway? Well, a package was delivered to my house this weekend and I went to pick it up.
I took one step on that icy driveway and down I went down in a flash, and I knew that ice was there! It just takes a little longer for some of us to learn things. I learned two things: Ice can be really slippery and it is hard!
A fun story overheard at one of the tables was about one of our OFs who was in the hospital as a kid. He was recounting the story of the food being served.
He said the food was all right; it was just that he didn’t like some of it, like spinach. He also said, if you wanted seconds, you first had to eat everything on your plate. That sound familiar to anyone?
Well, he said there was one overweight kid there that liked everything. So our OF, and others, would give him the food they didn’t like and then present their clean plates for seconds of what they did like.
How long have we all been finding ways around the rules? From hiding the peas under the lip of our plates at home to fooling the hospital with our clean plates?
A long time, I suspect, for all of us in one form or another, and no, I will not give out any personal examples. However, if any OF wishes to confess to a thing or two, you know where I sit on any given Tuesday.
Fat Tuesday
March 4 was also Fat Tuesday, otherwise known as Mardi Gras. Mardi Gras is the French name for the festive day celebrated in France on Shrove Tuesday, which is the Tuesday before Ash Wednesday, which marks the close of the pre-Lenten carnival season.
The “fat” comes from the custom of using all the fats in the home before Lent in preparation for fasting and abstinence. Mardi Gras is a Christian tradition celebrated worldwide with the first celebration in America taking place in Mobile, Alabama in 1703.
It wasn't until 1831 that it really heated up and got going. New Orleans is the place to be for the biggest celebration in the United States today. Although it is still a huge event in Mobile with dozens of parades and balls every year.
Mr. Google also told me about the beads. There are three colors: gold, green, and purple. They represent power, faith, and justice and are commonly distributed throughout the carnival, usually tossed from the floats.
A special kind of cake is consumed during the carnival. It is called a king cake. It is circular, sweet, and there is a gift of a small toy or a tiny plastic baby Jesus hidden inside. Whoever finds this gift inside their piece of king cake officially becomes “King for a Day” and must also supply the season’s next king cake, or host the next party!
In addition, I learned about the masks that are worn. Wearing masks is a traditional part of Mardi Gras. There are several reasons people wear these masks. Not at all surprising, is that some of those reasons have their roots in religion.
Originally, masks were also worn so that people of all classes could mingle freely. The servants, employees, slaves, everyone, had the day off to celebrate. Everyone was equal behind those masks. Cool idea.
The three classes of OMOTM (old, older, oldest) present on Tuesday and not wearing masks while enjoying breakfast at the Your Way Café in Schoharie were Harold Guest, Wally Guest, Ed Goff, Glenn Patterson, Mark Traver, Joe Rack, Miner Stevens, Frank A. Fuss, Roland Tozer, Marty Herzog, Wm Lichliter, George Washburn, Warren Willsey, Russ Pokorny, Jim Gardner, Pastor Jay Francis, Gary Burghoff, Jamey Darrah, Jack Norray, Gerry Cross, Dick Dexter, John Jazz, Henry Whipple, Lou Schenck, Herb Bahrmann, Bob Donnelly, Dave Hodgetts, John Dab, Paul Guiton, Dave Wood, and me.
MIDDLEBURGH — Cold. Colder. Coldest. Windy. Windier. Windiest.
A small group of OMOTM arrived Tuesday morning, Feb. 18, at the Middleburgh Diner. The winter is taking its toll.
Between the single-digit temperatures, the 60+ miles-per-hour wind, some ice and snow, Florida’s promise of warm weather, and doctor appointments, you know what you get? A modest number of OFs showing up for breakfast today.
Even I was tempted to stay home on Tuesday morning. Those thoughts started to enter my mind on Monday — with the temps remaining in the single digits, the wind howling, it gets going pretty fast at the south end of a frozen north-south lake. Rule #1: Don’t live at the south end of a north-south lake on a windy day.
I was in no mood to go outside and snowblow my driveway. We didn’t get much snow from the last big snowstorm that under-performed again. The approximately two inches of snow that did arrive was horizontal what with the wind and all. I don’t know where the snow finally came to rest, but it wasn’t in my driveway.
Even if I did go out and use the snowblower on what little ice and snow there was, with the wind blowing, the driveway would just drift over again in short order. Which leads me to Rule # 2: Don’t have an east-west driveway at the end of a north-south lake
I car-pool with another OF and it was my turn to drive this week so I decided to see how my car would handle the snow-packed driveway that I had failed to clear after the last two-inch blizzard.
I started to email him to ask if he would pick me up this week even though it was my turn to drive. I can do that because Frank is way younger than I and young guys always like to show that nothing stops them and they always like to help the old guys out.
They also don't miss the opportunity to tell us it would be “no problem” and it would be “his pleasure” to come get me in his big four-wheel-drive pickup that I need a stepladder to climb into (as compared to my 10-year-old two-wheel-drive Honda CRV. He would be happy to pick me up, “anytime.”
Anyway, I decided to see how my car would perform, so I stopped writing the email to go and check it out. It was at this time that my 4 foot, 11 inch vertically challenged daughter informed me that I wasn't going anywhere.
She told me that the garage door was frozen shut! It wouldn’t open. Rule # 3: Don’t have your garage door facing north into the wind at the south end of a north-south frozen lake.
Well! Now the shoe is on the other foot! I am the father, I am Pop, I am the hero, I can do anything, and I have, many times. Once again, it is time to saddle up and ride to the rescue. Usually I have my trusty companion with me, but that roll of duct tape was frozen solid in my unheated garage.
My other daughter gave me a birthday card last year that says, “There's Nothing that Dad and Duct Tape Can’t Fix.”
One of my grandsons gave me a baseball hat that reads, “DUCT TAPE DOUG” across the front.
Ah yes, the respect that flows from our children and grandchildren, the younger generation, to the OMOTM types, the older generation, just makes the goose bumps jump out all over the place! Good thing it is always accompanied with a lot of love.
So out into the cold garage I went. I first confirmed that the door was, indeed, frozen shut. Sometimes kids are mistaken.
I then set about scientifically fixing the problem, which involved vigorously kicking the bottom of the door while simultaneously clicking the electric garage door opener. It worked.
So now that the door was open, I got in the car and drove out the driveway and turned around and drove back in, no problem. Even the small pile of snow and ice at the end of the driveway left by the town snowplow proved to be just a speed bump.
I unsaddled my horse, rubbed him down, gave him his feed bag, and went back into the house and deleted the email to the OF asking for help. That really means I closed the garage door and went into the house, bragging that I fixed the frozen door.
So I remain the hero that can fix anything. The OF will have to tell me how old I am another day. I then sat down and rubbed my toes on my right foot because they were a little sore from kicking the door.
Oh, before I go, if you really want to know what the OMOTM talked about other than the cold and wind? There was an extended conversation all about car heaters. Imagine that.
Do you know the Nash, made by American Motors, was the last car manufacturer to still offer the car-heater as an option? It was standard equipment for all the other cars by that time.
The limited number of OFs who decided to make it to breakfast this week were: Harold Guest, Wally Guest, Ed Goff who had to leave early to take his grandson to work (another hero in action), Frank A. Fuss, Jamey Darrah, Wm Lichliter, Pastor Jay Francis, Warren Willsey, Gerry Cross, Jack Norray, Dick Dexter, John Jaz, Herb Bahrmann, and me.